Mistakes & trying again

Zog: questions to ask and activities to try

Zog tries harder than anyone at dragon school, and keeps crashing anyway. It's a funny, kind way to talk about mistakes, effort and finding the thing you're good at.

What age is it for? Zog is best for ages 3–6. Good for: Keeping going after mistakes, and finding what you are good at.

Cover of Zog by Julia Donaldson and Axel Scheffler

Zog (Julia Donaldson and Axel Scheffler)

Age
3-6
Best for
Keeping going after mistakes, and finding what you are good at

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How to use it

Children often feel a mistake means they're bad at something. Zog shows a character who gets it wrong again and again and keeps going. Ask what helped him keep trying, and praise trying, not only getting it right.

Why I like this one

Zog is the book I'd pick for a child who gets cross with themselves when something doesn't work first time. He crashes every single year, and nobody in the story treats that as a disaster.

What I'd point out is Princess Pearl. She doesn't fix Zog's problem for him, she just helps him get back up. That's a useful picture for children, and honestly for grown-ups too, of what support can look like. You might ask, “Who helps you when you try again?”

Apoorva, Growing Wise

What it helps with

Comprehension and discussion questions

Pick two or three, not all of them. “I don’t know” is a fine answer, and you can always come back to it another day.

  1. “Zog kept getting hurt. Why do you think he kept trying?”
  2. “How did the princess help him?”
  3. “What is something you are still learning to do?”
  4. “Do you need a gold star to have done well?”
  5. “What did Zog turn out to be good at?”
  6. “What could you say to yourself when something goes wrong?”

5-minute activities to try together

Try another way

Pick a small tricky task, like stacking cups or throwing a beanbag into a box. Each time it doesn't work, think of one different way to try.

A gold star for trying

For one week, give a star for having a go and for learning from a mistake, not for getting it right. Talk about each one at bedtime.

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By the Growing Wise team · Last reviewed: 1 October 2026

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