Mistakes & perfectionism

The Girl Who Never Made Mistakes: questions to ask and activities to try

Beatrice Bottomwell has never made a mistake, and everyone knows it. When she finally does, something surprising happens. A gentle book for children who are afraid of getting things wrong.

What age is it for? The Girl Who Never Made Mistakes is best for ages 5–8. Good for: Fear of mistakes, perfectionism and trying new things.

Cover of The Girl Who Never Made Mistakes by Mark Pett and Gary Rubinstein

The Girl Who Never Made Mistakes (Mark Pett and Gary Rubinstein)

Age
5-8
Best for
Fear of mistakes, perfectionism and trying new things

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How to use it

Ask how Beatrice feels about never making mistakes: it sounds great, but it means she never tries anything new. Then talk about what happens after her mistake, and what she gets to enjoy afterwards.

What it helps with

Comprehension and discussion questions

Pick two or three, not all of them. “I don’t know” is a fine answer, and you can always come back to it another day.

  1. “What would you try if making a mistake was completely OK?”
  2. “How do you think Beatrice felt about never making mistakes?”
  3. “What happened when she did make one?”
  4. “What did people do after her mistake?”
  5. “What's a mistake you made that turned out OK?”
  6. “What can you learn from a mistake?”

5-minute activities to try together

Mistake of the week

Each share one mistake you made this week and one thing it taught you.

Deliberately wobbly

Draw a picture with your other hand, or build a tower that's meant to be wonky, and laugh together at how it turns out.

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By the Growing Wise team ยท Last reviewed: 1 October 2026

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