Honesty & tall tales

Tiddler: questions to ask and activities to try

Tiddler explains why he's late with bigger and bigger stories, until one day no one believes him. A light, funny way to talk about the difference between imagining and telling the truth.

What age is it for? Tiddler is best for ages 3–6. Good for: Tall tales, telling the truth, and imagination.

Cover of Tiddler by Julia Donaldson and Axel Scheffler

Tiddler (Julia Donaldson and Axel Scheffler)

Age
3-6
Best for
Tall tales, telling the truth, and imagination

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How to use it

Imagination is something to celebrate, so don't make this a book about lying. Ask when a made-up story is fun and when it could cause a problem, and enjoy Tiddler's stories together.

Why I like this one

Tiddler is a gentle way into the difference between telling a story and telling a fib. Children love his tall tales, and so do I, which is exactly why it's useful. Imagination isn't the problem here; being believed when it matters is.

I'd avoid turning it into a lecture about lying. Instead, try making up a Tiddler-style excuse together, as silly as you like, then ask, “How would anyone know when Tiddler was telling the truth?”

Apoorva, Growing Wise

What it helps with

Comprehension and discussion questions

Pick two or three, not all of them. “I don’t know” is a fine answer, and you can always come back to it another day.

  1. “When is a made-up story fun, and when could it cause a problem?”
  2. “Why did Tiddler tell such big stories?”
  3. “What happened when Tiddler really was lost?”
  4. “How did his story help him get home?”
  5. “Have you ever told a story that wasn't true?”
  6. “What makes someone trust you?”

5-minute activities to try together

Silly story, true story

Take turns telling a silly made-up story, then a true one about today.

Story chain

Take turns adding one sentence to a made-up story, and agree at the start that it's pretend.

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By the Growing Wise team · Last reviewed: 1 October 2026

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