Change & growing

The Very Hungry Caterpillar: questions to ask and activities to try

One little caterpillar, a week of food and a very big change. The Very Hungry Caterpillar is a gentle way to talk about growing up, and about change that takes time.

What age is it for? The Very Hungry Caterpillar is best for ages 2–5. Good for: Growing and changing, and waiting for something good.

Cover of The Very Hungry Caterpillar by Eric Carle

The Very Hungry Caterpillar (Eric Carle)

Age
2-5
Best for
Growing and changing, and waiting for something good

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How to use it

Read it once for the holes and the counting. Next time, slow down at the cocoon page and ask what the caterpillar might be thinking while he waits. Young children find change easier when they know that some things take time.

Why I like this one

Most people remember this as a counting book, but I like it for the part at the end that's easy to skip: the caterpillar waits in his cocoon for a long time before anything good happens.

For younger children it's lovely to read just for the food and the holes in the pages. For slightly older ones, the waiting is the interesting bit. You might ask, “What's something you're waiting for?” and talk about what makes waiting easier.

Apoorva, Growing Wise

What it helps with

Comprehension and discussion questions

Pick two or three, not all of them. “I don’t know” is a fine answer, and you can always come back to it another day.

  1. “How do you think the caterpillar felt after eating all that food on Saturday?”
  2. “Why did he feel better after eating one nice green leaf?”
  3. “What do you think it was like inside the cocoon?”
  4. “The caterpillar changed into a butterfly. How have you changed since you were a baby?”
  5. “What is something you are waiting for? What helps the waiting?”
  6. “Which food in the book would you choose, and which would you skip?”

5-minute activities to try together

Then and now

Find a baby photo of your child. Talk about three things they can do now that they couldn't do then, and one thing they're looking forward to learning.

A cocoon in a cup

Plant a bean or seed in a cup together. Check it each day and talk about how waiting feels, just like the caterpillar in his cocoon.

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Best for
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Age
3+
Cover of The Invisible String by Patrice Karst

The Invisible String (Patrice Karst)

Best for
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Age
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Green Eggs and Ham (Dr. Seuss)

Best for
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Age
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By the Growing Wise team · Last reviewed: 6 October 2026

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