Focus & persistence

The Very Busy Spider: questions to ask and activities to try

The farm animals keep asking the spider to play, but she's busy spinning her web. The Very Busy Spider is a beautiful touch-and-feel book about focus and finishing what you start.

What age is it for? The Very Busy Spider is best from birth to age 4. Good for: Sticking at a job, even when others want you to play.

Cover of The Very Busy Spider by Eric Carle

The Very Busy Spider (Eric Carle)

Age
0-4
Best for
Sticking at a job, even when others want you to play

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How to use it

Let your child run a finger over the raised web on each page. Join in with the animal noises, and talk about finishing a job before you play.

What it helps with

Comprehension and discussion questions

Pick two or three, not all of them. “I don’t know” is a fine answer, and you can always come back to it another day.

  1. “What was the spider making?”
  2. “Which animals asked her to play?”
  3. “What did she say each time?”
  4. “What did she catch at the end?”
  5. “What job do you like to finish?”
  6. “What sound does each animal make?”

5-minute activities to try together

Web weaving

Make a web with wool around a paper plate or between chair legs.

Finish it first

Choose a small job, like a puzzle, and finish it before playing something else.

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By the Growing Wise team · Last reviewed: 10 October 2026

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