Grumpiness & manners

The Bad-Tempered Ladybird: questions to ask and activities to try

The bad-tempered ladybird picks fights with everyone, even a whale! The Bad-Tempered Ladybird is Eric Carle's classic about grumpiness, manners and making friends.

What age is it for? The Bad-Tempered Ladybird is best for ages 2–5. Good for: Being grumpy and picking fights, and learning to share.

Cover of The Bad-Tempered Ladybird by Eric Carle

The Bad-Tempered Ladybird (Eric Carle)

Age
2-5
Best for
Being grumpy and picking fights, and learning to share

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How to use it

Use a grumpy voice for “Want to fight?” and notice the pages and animals getting bigger. Talk about why the friendly ladybird was happier.

What it helps with

Comprehension and discussion questions

Pick two or three, not all of them. “I don’t know” is a fine answer, and you can always come back to it another day.

  1. “Why was the ladybird grumpy?”
  2. “Who did he try to fight?”
  3. “How did the animals get bigger?”
  4. “What happened with the whale?”
  5. “Why was the friendly ladybird happier?”
  6. “What makes you grumpy?”

5-minute activities to try together

Biggest to smallest

Line up toy animals from smallest to biggest.

Clock spotting

Look at the clocks on each page and find the same time on a real clock.

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By the Growing Wise team · Last reviewed: 10 October 2026

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