Grief & grandparents

If All the World Were...: questions to ask and activities to try

A girl's adventures with her granddad, and how she remembers him when he's gone. If All the World Were... is a lyrical, uplifting book about love and grief.

What age is it for? If All the World Were... is best for ages 4–8. Good for: Losing a grandparent, and remembering.

Cover of If All the World Were... by Joseph Coelho and Allison Colpoys

If All the World Were... (Joseph Coelho and Allison Colpoys)

Age
4-8
Best for
Losing a grandparent, and remembering

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How to use it

Read it gently when your child is ready. Afterwards, talk about a happy memory of someone you love.

What it helps with

Comprehension and discussion questions

Pick two or three, not all of them. “I don’t know” is a fine answer, and you can always come back to it another day.

  1. “What did the girl do with Granddad?”
  2. “What happened to him?”
  3. “How did she feel?”
  4. “What did she find?”
  5. “How did she remember him?”
  6. “What memory would you keep?”

5-minute activities to try together

Memory book

Make a small book of drawings and memories of someone special.

If all the world were

Finish the sentence: If all the world were... together.

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By the Growing Wise team · Last reviewed: 10 October 2026

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