Hearing no

Don't Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus!: questions to ask and activities to try

The bus driver asks your child to do one thing: don't let the pigeon drive the bus. The pigeon begs, bargains and has a tantrum, and your child gets to say no. A hilarious way to talk about hearing no.

What age is Don't Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus! for?

Don't Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus! is best for ages 3–6.

Cover of Don't Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus! by Mo Willems

Don't Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus! (Mo Willems)

Age
3-6
Best for
Hearing no, and big feelings when you can't have what you want
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How to use it

Let your child shout "No!" at the pigeon every time. Afterwards, talk about the tricks the pigeon tried, and what they do when they really want something.

Is this book right for your child?

Age
3–6 (nursery to Year 1)
What they'll enjoy
The bus driver asks your child to do one thing: don't let the pigeon drive the bus. The pigeon begs, bargains and has a tantrum, and your child gets to say no. A hilarious way to talk about hearing no.
Helps with
Hearing no, and big feelings when you can't have what you want
Buy or borrow?
Borrow it from the library first if you can. If your child asks for it again and again, it’s one worth owning, and the questions and activities on this page work best with the book open next to you.

What it helps with

Comprehension and discussion questions for Don't Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus!

Pick two or three, not all of them. “I don’t know” is a fine answer, and you can always come back to it another day.

  1. “What did the pigeon want to do?”
  2. “What tricks did the pigeon try to get a yes?”
  3. “How did the pigeon feel when you kept saying no?”
  4. “Why shouldn’t a pigeon drive a bus?”
  5. “What do you do when you really want something and the answer is no?”
  6. “What helps you feel better after a big tantrum?”

For the full list of questions and more, download the PDF below.

5-minute activities to try together

Pigeon says

Take turns being the pigeon and begging for something silly. The other person practises saying no kindly but firmly.

Calm-down bus

Draw a bus with seats. In each seat, draw one thing that helps your child calm down when they’re cross.

Use it as a lesson plan

Learning goal

Children can listen to Don't Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus!, answer questions about it and give a reason for their ideas, and talk about hearing no.

A 20-minute session for ages 3–6 (nursery to Year 1), for a class, a small group or one child at home.

  1. Warm up (2 minutes). Show the cover and read the title. Ask: “What do you think this story will be about?”
  2. Read aloud (6 minutes). Read it all the way through. Tip: Let your child shout "No!" at the pigeon every time. Afterwards, talk about the tricks the pigeon tried, and what they do when they really want something.
  3. Talk about it (4 minutes). Pick two or three of the comprehension and discussion questions above. “What did the pigeon want to do?” works well to start.
  4. Activity (6 minutes). Do Pigeon says. Take turns being the pigeon and begging for something silly. The other person practises saying no kindly but firmly. Children who finish early can try Calm-down bus.
  5. Wrap up (2 minutes). Ask each child for one thing they will remember from the story, and why.

Want to go further? The Don't Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus! activity sheet has these questions with space to answer, a drawing and writing page, and notes for the adult.

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By the Growing Wise team · Last reviewed: 25 October 2026

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