Loneliness & fitting in

Blue Chameleon: questions to ask and activities to try

Chameleon is lonely, so he changes to fit in with everything he meets. Blue Chameleon is a witty first book of colours and shapes, and a gentle story about loneliness and friendship.

What age is it for? Blue Chameleon is best for ages 2–5. Good for: Feeling lonely, fitting in, and colours and shapes.

Cover of Blue Chameleon by Emily Gravett

Blue Chameleon (Emily Gravett)

Age
2-5
Best for
Feeling lonely, fitting in, and colours and shapes

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How to use it

Name each colour and shape as Chameleon changes. Then go back and ask how he feels on each page: his colour is a clue. The ending is a lovely chat about finding a real friend.

What it helps with

Comprehension and discussion questions

Pick two or three, not all of them. “I don’t know” is a fine answer, and you can always come back to it another day.

  1. “Why was Chameleon blue at the start?”
  2. “What did he turn into?”
  3. “Why didn’t the snail or the sock want to be friends?”
  4. “Who did he meet in the end?”
  5. “What colour would you be when you’re happy? Sad?”
  6. “How can we help someone who’s lonely?”

5-minute activities to try together

Colour feelings

Choose a colour for different feelings. Draw Chameleon in the colour of how your child feels today.

Blend in

Hide toys that match the colours around the house. Which ones are hardest to find?

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Children who feel different or want to fit in
Age
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A Splendid Friend, Indeed (Suzanne Bloom)

Best for
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Age
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Best for
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Age
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By the Growing Wise team · Last reviewed: 10 October 2026

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