Making friends

A Splendid Friend, Indeed: questions to ask and activities to try

Bear wants some peace and quiet. Goose wants to chat. A Splendid Friend, Indeed is a simple, funny story about two very different friends finding their way to each other.

What age is it for? A Splendid Friend, Indeed is best for ages 2–5. Good for: Making friends with someone very different from you.

Cover of A Splendid Friend, Indeed by Suzanne Bloom

A Splendid Friend, Indeed (Suzanne Bloom)

Age
2-5
Best for
Making friends with someone very different from you

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How to use it

Read Goose's lines in a bouncy voice and Bear's in a slow, grumpy one. Pause when Bear gets cross and ask how each of them feels. It's a nice one for a child who's finding a friend hard work.

What it helps with

Comprehension and discussion questions

Pick two or three, not all of them. “I don’t know” is a fine answer, and you can always come back to it another day.

  1. “What did Bear want to do?”
  2. “What did Goose keep doing?”
  3. “How did Bear feel about Goose at first?”
  4. “What changed his mind?”
  5. “Do you have a friend who likes different things from you?”
  6. “What makes someone a splendid friend?”

5-minute activities to try together

Different but friends

Each choose a favourite thing to do. Do both, five minutes each, together, and talk about what you liked.

Splendid friend card

Make a card for a friend that says one thing you like about them.

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By the Growing Wise team · Last reviewed: 10 October 2026

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