Love & loneliness

Nen and the Lonely Fisherman: questions to ask and activities to try

A merman with an empty heart meets a lonely fisherman. Nen and the Lonely Fisherman is a tender fairy tale about love and loneliness.

What age is it for? Nen and the Lonely Fisherman is best for ages 4–8. Good for: A merman, a lonely fisherman and love.

Cover of Nen and the Lonely Fisherman by Ian Eagleton and James Mayhew

Nen and the Lonely Fisherman (Ian Eagleton and James Mayhew)

Age
4-8
Best for
A merman, a lonely fisherman and love

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How to use it

Read it gently and enjoy the sea pictures. Talk about loneliness and how love can come from unexpected places.

What it helps with

Comprehension and discussion questions

Pick two or three, not all of them. “I don’t know” is a fine answer, and you can always come back to it another day.

  1. “Where does Nen live?”
  2. “What was missing?”
  3. “Who did he meet?”
  4. “Why was Ernest lonely?”
  5. “What stood in their way?”
  6. “What helps when you feel lonely?”

5-minute activities to try together

Under the sea

Draw Nen's underwater kingdom.

Lonely list

Talk about ways to help someone who seems lonely.

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By the Growing Wise team · Last reviewed: 10 October 2026

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