My Very Own Space: questions to ask and activities to try
Rabbit just wants to read in peace, but everyone keeps getting too close. My Very Own Space is a charming book about needing space, setting boundaries, and inviting others back in.
What age is it for? My Very Own Space is best for ages 3–6. Good for: Needing some space, and boundaries.
My Very Own Space (Pippa Goodhart and Rebecca Crane)
- Age
- 3-6
- Best for
- Needing some space, and boundaries
Read it and let your child notice how Rabbit feels as the others crowd in. Afterwards, talk about how to ask for space kindly, and how to tell when someone else needs it.
What it helps with
- Needing quiet time or space
- Setting boundaries kindly
- Respecting other people's space
- Balancing alone time and company
Comprehension and discussion questions
Pick two or three, not all of them. “I don’t know” is a fine answer, and you can always come back to it another day.
- “What was Rabbit trying to do?”
- “How did he feel when everyone came close?”
- “What did he do to get some space?”
- “How did he feel on his own?”
- “How can you ask for space kindly?”
- “Where do you go when you need quiet?”
5-minute activities to try together
Calm corner
Make a small space with a blanket and cushions where your child can go for quiet time.
Space words
Practise asking for space: “I need a little space, please. I'll play later.”
Free printables: My Very Own Space worksheet and activity pack
This book’s one-page worksheet with the questions and activities above, plus our activity pack: printable scenario cards, three 5-minute activities and a “What could I try?” page for practising everyday skills together. Enter your email and download them straight away.
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If your child liked this, try
Fair Shares (Pippa Goodhart and Anna Doherty)
- Best for
- What's fair, and why fair isn't always the same
- Age
- 3-6
A Splendid Friend, Indeed (Suzanne Bloom)
- Best for
- Making friends with someone very different from you
- Age
- 2-5
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By the Growing Wise team · Last reviewed: 10 October 2026
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