Perfectionism

Ish: questions to ask and activities to try

Ramon stops drawing because his pictures don't look right. Ish is a short, warm story for children who think if it isn't perfect, it isn't worth doing.

What age is it for? Ish is best for ages 4–8. Good for: Children who give up because their work isn't 'right'.

Cover of Ish by Peter H. Reynolds

Ish (Peter H. Reynolds)

Age
4-8
Best for
Children who give up because their work isn't 'right'

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How to use it

Read it with paper and crayons nearby. After the story, try drawing something “ish” together. It's a good one to return to when your child screws up a drawing.

What it helps with

Comprehension and discussion questions

Pick two or three, not all of them. “I don’t know” is a fine answer, and you can always come back to it another day.

  1. “Why did Ramon stop drawing?”
  2. “How did his brother’s laugh make him feel?”
  3. “What did his sister do with his drawings?”
  4. “What does “ish” mean?”
  5. “Is there something you stopped doing because it wasn’t perfect?”
  6. “What could you make that’s “ish”?”

5-minute activities to try together

Ish gallery

Each draw three quick “ish” pictures, like a house-ish house. Stick them on the wall with titles.

Kind words

Talk about what to say when someone shows you their drawing. Practise one kind thing to say.

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By the Growing Wise team · Last reviewed: 6 October 2026

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