Self-control

Don't Push the Button!: questions to ask and activities to try

Larry the monster has one rule: don't push the button. But what would happen if you did? An interactive book that tests every reader's self-control.

What age is Don't Push the Button! for?

Don't Push the Button! is best for ages 2–5.

Cover of Don't Push the Button! by Bill Cotter

Don't Push the Button! (Bill Cotter)

Age
2-5
Best for
Interactive fun and practising self-control
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How to use it

Let your child decide whether to push the button on each page. Laugh at what happens, then talk about how hard it is not to do something you’ve been told not to.

Is this book right for your child?

Age
2–5 (nursery to Reception)
What they'll enjoy
Larry the monster has one rule: don't push the button. But what would happen if you did? An interactive book that tests every reader's self-control.
Helps with
Interactive fun and practising self-control
Buy or borrow?
Borrow it from the library first if you can. If your child asks for it again and again, it’s one worth owning, and the questions and activities on this page work best with the book open next to you.

What it helps with

Comprehension and discussion questions for Don't Push the Button!

Pick two or three, not all of them. “I don’t know” is a fine answer, and you can always come back to it another day.

  1. “What was Larry’s rule?”
  2. “What happened when you pushed the button?”
  3. “Was it hard not to push it? Why?”
  4. “How did Larry fix things?”
  5. “What’s something that’s hard not to touch?”
  6. “What helps you wait or stop when you need to?”

For the full list of questions and more, download the PDF below.

5-minute activities to try together

Button game

Draw a big red button. Play a game where your child must wait for a signal word before pressing it.

Stop and go

Play musical statues or traffic lights to practise stopping and starting.

Use it as a lesson plan

Learning goal

Children can listen to Don't Push the Button!, answer questions about it and give a reason for their ideas, and talk about self-control.

A 20-minute session for ages 2–5 (nursery to Reception), for a class, a small group or one child at home.

  1. Warm up (2 minutes). Show the cover and read the title. Ask: “What do you think this story will be about?”
  2. Read aloud (6 minutes). Read it all the way through. Tip: Let your child decide whether to push the button on each page. Laugh at what happens, then talk about how hard it is not to do something you’ve been told not to.
  3. Talk about it (4 minutes). Pick two or three of the comprehension and discussion questions above. “What was Larry’s rule?” works well to start.
  4. Activity (6 minutes). Do Button game. Draw a big red button. Play a game where your child must wait for a signal word before pressing it. Children who finish early can try Stop and go.
  5. Wrap up (2 minutes). Ask each child for one thing they will remember from the story, and why.

Want to go further? The Don't Push the Button! activity sheet has these questions with space to answer, a drawing and writing page, and notes for the adult.

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By the Growing Wise team · Last reviewed: 29 October 2026

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