Bedtime & the dark

Can't You Sleep, Little Bear?: questions to ask and activities to try

Little Bear just can't sleep, because the dark is all around him. Can't You Sleep, Little Bear? is a deeply reassuring bedtime classic about fear of the dark, and a patient grown-up who helps.

What age is it for? Can't You Sleep, Little Bear? is best for ages 2–6. Good for: Being scared of the dark at bedtime.

Cover of Can't You Sleep, Little Bear? by Martin Waddell and Barbara Firth

Can't You Sleep, Little Bear? (Martin Waddell and Barbara Firth)

Age
2-6
Best for
Being scared of the dark at bedtime

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How to use it

Read it slowly and quietly at bedtime. Notice how patient Big Bear is each time, and talk about what helps your child when the dark feels big. It's a gentle model for grown-ups too.

What it helps with

Comprehension and discussion questions

Pick two or three, not all of them. “I don’t know” is a fine answer, and you can always come back to it another day.

  1. “Why couldn’t Little Bear sleep?”
  2. “What did Big Bear bring each time?”
  3. “Why didn’t the lanterns help?”
  4. “What did Big Bear show Little Bear in the end?”
  5. “Is there anything that worries you at bedtime?”
  6. “What helps you feel safe in the dark?”

5-minute activities to try together

Lantern walk

Turn the lights down and take a torch round the house together. Find all the friendly things the dark was hiding.

Moon watch

On a clear evening, look out of the window at the moon and stars together, like Big Bear and Little Bear.

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By the Growing Wise team · Last reviewed: 10 October 2026

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