Problem solving

Alfie Gets in First: questions to ask and activities to try

Alfie races in first, slams the door, and locks Mum and Annie Rose outside. Alfie Gets in First is a much-loved classic about feeling stuck, getting upset, and working it out yourself.

What age is it for? Alfie Gets in First is best for ages 2–6. Good for: Solving a problem yourself when you're stuck.

Cover of Alfie Gets in First by Shirley Hughes

Alfie Gets in First (Shirley Hughes)

Age
2-6
Best for
Solving a problem yourself when you're stuck

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How to use it

Read it slowly and look at all the neighbours gathering outside. Pause when Alfie starts to cry and ask what he could do. Children love that Alfie solves it himself, so make a big deal of that page.

What it helps with

Comprehension and discussion questions

Pick two or three, not all of them. “I don’t know” is a fine answer, and you can always come back to it another day.

  1. “How did Alfie get locked in?”
  2. “How did he feel when he couldn’t open the door?”
  3. “Who came to help?”
  4. “What did Alfie do in the end?”
  5. “How do you think he felt when he opened the door?”
  6. “What could you do if you were stuck?”

5-minute activities to try together

Problem solvers

Set a small, safe challenge, like getting a toy out of a closed box. Let your child think of three ideas before trying one.

Proud moments

Talk about a time your child worked something out by themselves. Draw it and add a star.

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By the Growing Wise team · Last reviewed: 10 October 2026

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