Fear & getting back up

After the Fall: questions to ask and activities to try

Everyone knows Humpty Dumpty fell. After the Fall is about what happened next: being scared, and finding the courage to climb again.

What age is it for? After the Fall is best for ages 4–8. Good for: Children who are scared to try again after something went wrong.

Cover of After the Fall by Dan Santat

After the Fall (Dan Santat)

Age
4-8
Best for
Children who are scared to try again after something went wrong

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How to use it

Read it after your child has had a fall, a bad experience or a scary moment, once things are calm. Pause when Humpty can't climb the ladder and ask how he feels.

What it helps with

Comprehension and discussion questions

Pick two or three, not all of them. “I don’t know” is a fine answer, and you can always come back to it another day.

  1. “How did Humpty feel after his fall?”
  2. “What could he no longer do?”
  3. “What did he start doing instead of climbing?”
  4. “What helped him climb the wall again?”
  5. “Has something ever felt scary after it went wrong?”
  6. “What’s one small step you could take?”

5-minute activities to try together

Tiny steps ladder

Draw a ladder with five rungs. Write one tiny step on each towards something your child finds scary, starting with the easiest.

Paper planes

Make paper planes together like Humpty. Talk about what you'd like to feel brave enough to try.

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More illustrated by Dan Santat: Don't Trust Fish!

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By the Growing Wise team · Last reviewed: 6 October 2026

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