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A Chair for My Mother: questions to ask and activities to try

After a fire, a girl, her mother and her grandmother save every coin in a jar to buy one comfortable chair. A Caldecott Honor book about family, community and starting again.

What age is A Chair for My Mother for?

A Chair for My Mother is best for ages 4–8.

Cover of A Chair for My Mother by Vera B. Williams

A Chair for My Mother (Vera B. Williams)

Age
4-8
Best for
Saving up, family love, and starting again after loss
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How to use it

Talk about how the family felt after the fire and how the neighbours helped. Then talk about saving up for something that really matters.

Is this book right for your child?

Age
4–8 (Reception to Year 3)
What they'll enjoy
After a fire, a girl, her mother and her grandmother save every coin in a jar to buy one comfortable chair. A Caldecott Honor book about family, community and starting again.
Helps with
Saving up, family love, and starting again after loss
Buy or borrow?
Borrow it from the library first if you can. If your child asks for it again and again, it’s one worth owning, and the questions and activities on this page work best with the book open next to you.

What it helps with

Comprehension and discussion questions for A Chair for My Mother

Pick two or three, not all of them. “I don’t know” is a fine answer, and you can always come back to it another day.

  1. “What happened to the family’s home?”
  2. “How did the neighbours help?”
  3. “Why did they want a special chair?”
  4. “How did they save the money?”
  5. “What would you save up for?”
  6. “Who helps your family when things are hard?”

For the full list of questions and more, download the PDF below.

5-minute activities to try together

Savings jar

Decorate a jar together and choose something to save up for. Add a coin when you can.

Thank-you list

List the people who help your family, and choose one to thank this week.

Use it as a lesson plan

Learning goal

Children can listen to A Chair for My Mother, answer questions about it and give a reason for their ideas, and talk about saving money.

A 20-minute session for ages 4–8 (Reception to Year 3), for a class, a small group or one child at home.

  1. Warm up (2 minutes). Show the cover and read the title. Ask: “What do you think this story will be about?”
  2. Read aloud (6 minutes). Read it all the way through. Tip: Talk about how the family felt after the fire and how the neighbours helped. Then talk about saving up for something that really matters.
  3. Talk about it (4 minutes). Pick two or three of the comprehension and discussion questions above. “What happened to the family’s home?” works well to start.
  4. Activity (6 minutes). Do Savings jar. Decorate a jar together and choose something to save up for. Add a coin when you can. Children who finish early can try Thank-you list.
  5. Wrap up (2 minutes). Ask each child for one thing they will remember from the story, and why.

Want to go further? The A Chair for My Mother activity sheet has these questions with space to answer, a drawing and writing page, and notes for the adult.

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By the Growing Wise team · Last reviewed: 25 October 2026

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