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Books for the adults, not the children: calm, practical reads about feelings, behaviour and growing up.

Books for parents 8 books

Cover of How to Talk So Little Kids Will Listen by Joanna Faber and Julie King

How to Talk So Little Kids Will Listen Joanna Faber and Julie King

For parents · Best for: Practical communication during everyday parent-child situations

Why we chose it

A strong fit for Growing Wise because it's built around concrete, everyday scripts rather than theory.

Cover of Siblings Without Rivalry by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish

Siblings Without Rivalry Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish

For parents · Best for: Parents managing recurring sibling conflict

Why we chose it

A useful companion to our sibling-conflict guide, for parents who want to go deeper.

Cover of The Whole-Brain Child by Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson

The Whole-Brain Child Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson

For parents · Best for: Understanding big feelings and meltdowns through how a child's brain develops

Why we chose it

Explains, in plain words, why young children melt down and how to help them calm and think, with practical strategies you can use in the moment.

Cover of No-Drama Discipline by Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson

No-Drama Discipline Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson

For parents · Best for: Discipline that teaches, without shouting or punishments

Why we chose it

The follow-up to The Whole-Brain Child, focused on what to do when behaviour goes wrong: connect first, then redirect.

Cover of The Self-Driven Child by William Stixrud and Ned Johnson

The Self-Driven Child William Stixrud and Ned Johnson

For parents · Best for: Giving children more control, so they build motivation and resilience

Why we chose it

Argues that children who feel in charge of their own choices are calmer and more motivated, with practical ways to step back from nagging.

Cover of The Gift of Failure by Jessica Lahey

The Gift of Failure Jessica Lahey

For parents · Best for: Letting children struggle and make mistakes so they learn

Why we chose it

A teacher's case for stepping back: why rescuing children from every mistake takes away the chance to learn, and how to let go.

Cover of The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read by Philippa Perry

The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read Philippa Perry

For parents · Best for: Understanding your own reactions, and building a closer relationship with your child

Why we chose it

Less about techniques and more about the relationship: how our own childhoods shape the way we parent, and how to repair after a rupture.

Cover of Good Inside by Becky Kennedy

Good Inside Becky Kennedy

For parents · Best for: Staying calm and connected through tantrums, defiance and big feelings

Why we chose it

Built on the idea that children are good inside even when behaviour isn't, with clear scripts for the hardest moments.

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