The Thing Lou Couldn't Do: questions to ask and activities to try
Lou has never climbed a tree, and she’s sure she can’t do it. The Thing Lou Couldn’t Do is a warm, funny book about trying something new, even when you might not manage it first time.
What age is it for? The Thing Lou Couldn't Do is best for ages 3–7. Good for: Trying something new when you're sure you can't.
The Thing Lou Couldn't Do (Ashley Spires)
- Age
- 3-7
- Best for
- Trying something new when you're sure you can't
Notice each excuse Lou makes. Talk about things your child is unsure of trying, and that trying is what counts.
What it helps with
- Trying new things
- Feeling unsure or scared
- Not managing first time
- Keeping going
Comprehension and discussion questions
Pick two or three, not all of them. “I don’t know” is a fine answer, and you can always come back to it another day.
- “What couldn’t Lou do?”
- “What excuses did she make?”
- “Why do you think she made excuses?”
- “What happened when she tried?”
- “Is there something you’re not sure you can do yet?”
- “What could you say to Lou to help her?”
5-minute activities to try together
Not yet list
Write a list of things your child can’t do yet, and add a tick when they try one.
Brave try
Pick one small new thing, like a new food or a climbing frame, and try it together.
Free printables: The Thing Lou Couldn't Do worksheet and activity pack
This book’s one-page worksheet with the questions and activities above, plus our activity pack: printable scenario cards, three 5-minute activities and a “What could I try?” page for practising everyday skills together. Enter your email and download them straight away.
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If your child liked this, try
The Most Magnificent Thing (Ashley Spires)
- Best for
- Frustration, persistence, making mistakes and trying again
- Age
- 4-8
Giraffes Can’t Dance (Giles Andreae)
- Best for
- A child who measures themselves against what other children can do
- Age
- 4-7
How to Catch a Star (Oliver Jeffers)
- Best for
- Big dreams, trying again, and finding them in unexpected places
- Age
- 3-7
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By the Growing Wise team · Last reviewed: 16 October 2026
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