Bullying

The Recess Queen: questions to ask and activities to try

Mean Jean is the Recess Queen, and nobody plays until she says so. Then a tiny new girl asks her to play. A lively story about playground bullying and the power of kindness.

What age is The Recess Queen for?

The Recess Queen is best for ages 5–8.

Cover of The Recess Queen by Alexis O'Neill and Laura Huliska-Beith

The Recess Queen (Alexis O'Neill and Laura Huliska-Beith)

Age
5-8
Best for
Playground bullying, and how kindness can change things
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How to use it

Read it with lots of voice. Then talk about why Jean might have been so bossy, and what Katie Sue did that nobody else had tried.

Is this book right for your child?

Age
5–8 (Year 1 to Year 3)
What they'll enjoy
Mean Jean is the Recess Queen, and nobody plays until she says so. Then a tiny new girl asks her to play. A lively story about playground bullying and the power of kindness.
Helps with
Playground bullying, and how kindness can change things
Buy or borrow?
Borrow it from the library first if you can. If your child asks for it again and again, it’s one worth owning, and the questions and activities on this page work best with the book open next to you.

What it helps with

Comprehension and discussion questions for The Recess Queen

Pick two or three, not all of them. “I don’t know” is a fine answer, and you can always come back to it another day.

  1. “How did Mean Jean treat the other children?”
  2. “What did Katie Sue do that was different?”
  3. “Why do you think Jean was so bossy?”
  4. “How did Jean change at the end?”
  5. “What could you do if someone is bossy at playtime?”
  6. “How can you include someone who is left out?”

For the full list of questions and more, download the PDF below.

5-minute activities to try together

Playground plan

Draw your playground. Mark a place where someone might feel left out, and plan how to invite them to play.

Skipping rhyme

Make up a skipping or clapping rhyme together about playing kindly, like Katie Sue.

Use it as a lesson plan

Learning goal

Children can listen to The Recess Queen, answer questions about it and give a reason for their ideas, and talk about bullying and bossiness.

A 20-minute session for ages 5–8 (Year 1 to Year 3), for a class, a small group or one child at home.

  1. Warm up (2 minutes). Show the cover and read the title. Ask: “What do you think this story will be about?”
  2. Read aloud (6 minutes). Read it all the way through. Tip: Read it with lots of voice. Then talk about why Jean might have been so bossy, and what Katie Sue did that nobody else had tried.
  3. Talk about it (4 minutes). Pick two or three of the comprehension and discussion questions above. “How did Mean Jean treat the other children?” works well to start.
  4. Activity (6 minutes). Do Playground plan. Draw your playground. Mark a place where someone might feel left out, and plan how to invite them to play. Children who finish early can try Skipping rhyme.
  5. Wrap up (2 minutes). Ask each child for one thing they will remember from the story, and why.

Want to go further? The The Recess Queen activity sheet has these questions with space to answer, a drawing and writing page, and notes for the adult.

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By the Growing Wise team · Last reviewed: 25 October 2026

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