Confidence & giving up

The Princess in Black and the Perfect Princess Party: questions to ask and activities to try

It’s Princess Magnolia’s birthday, and the monster alarm won’t stop ringing. The Princess in Black and the Perfect Princess Party is a funny early chapter book about keeping going when your plans keep going wrong.

What age is it for? The Princess in Black and the Perfect Princess Party is best for ages 5–8. Good for: Juggling lots of jobs at once, and a party that keeps going wrong.

Cover of The Princess in Black and the Perfect Princess Party by Shannon Hale, Dean Hale and LeUyen Pham

The Princess in Black and the Perfect Princess Party (Shannon Hale, Dean Hale and LeUyen Pham)

Age
5-8
Best for
Juggling lots of jobs at once, and a party that keeps going wrong

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How to use it

Read a chapter or two at a time. Each time the alarm rings, ask your child what they think Magnolia will do, and how she might be feeling.

What it helps with

Comprehension and discussion questions

Pick two or three, not all of them. “I don’t know” is a fine answer, and you can always come back to it another day.

  1. “Why did Princess Magnolia keep leaving her party?”
  2. “How do you think she felt each time the alarm rang?”
  3. “Did any of the guests guess her secret?”
  4. “What would you have done in her place?”
  5. “When have your plans gone wrong?”
  6. “What helps you keep going on a tricky day?”

5-minute activities to try together

Superhero switch

Set a timer and see how fast you can switch into a dressing-up outfit and back again.

Party plan

Plan a pretend party together, then pick one thing that might go wrong and decide what you would do.

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By the Growing Wise team ยท Last reviewed: 16 October 2026

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