Friendship

Tabby McTat: questions to ask and activities to try

Tabby McTat the busker's cat loves singing with Fred, until one day they are parted. A Julia Donaldson and Axel Scheffler story about friendship, missing someone and finding them again.

What age is Tabby McTat for?

Tabby McTat is best for ages 3–6.

Cover of Tabby McTat by Julia Donaldson and Axel Scheffler

Tabby McTat (Julia Donaldson and Axel Scheffler)

Age
3-6
Best for
Missing someone you love, and finding them again
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How to use it

Read Tabby’s "mew" and Fred’s songs aloud. Talk about a time your child missed someone, and what helped while they were apart.

Is this book right for your child?

Age
3–6 (nursery to Year 1)
What they'll enjoy
Tabby McTat the busker's cat loves singing with Fred, until one day they are parted. A Julia Donaldson and Axel Scheffler story about friendship, missing someone and finding them again.
Helps with
Missing someone you love, and finding them again
Buy or borrow?
Borrow it from the library first if you can. If your child asks for it again and again, it’s one worth owning, and the questions and activities on this page work best with the book open next to you.

What it helps with

Comprehension and discussion questions for Tabby McTat

Pick two or three, not all of them. “I don’t know” is a fine answer, and you can always come back to it another day.

  1. “What did Tabby McTat and Fred do together?”
  2. “How did they get separated?”
  3. “How do you think Tabby felt when he couldn’t find Fred?”
  4. “What new friends did Tabby make?”
  5. “How did they find each other again?”
  6. “Who do you miss when they’re away? What helps?”

For the full list of questions and more, download the PDF below.

5-minute activities to try together

Busker’s song

Make up a short song together, like Fred and Tabby, and perform it with pots, pans or a toy instrument.

Missing you box

Draw a picture or write a note for someone your child misses, and decide together how to send it.

Use it as a lesson plan

Learning goal

Children can listen to Tabby McTat, answer questions about it and give a reason for their ideas, and talk about missing someone.

A 20-minute session for ages 3–6 (nursery to Year 1), for a class, a small group or one child at home.

  1. Warm up (2 minutes). Show the cover and read the title. Ask: “What do you think this story will be about?”
  2. Read aloud (6 minutes). Read it all the way through. Tip: Read Tabby’s "mew" and Fred’s songs aloud. Talk about a time your child missed someone, and what helped while they were apart.
  3. Talk about it (4 minutes). Pick two or three of the comprehension and discussion questions above. “What did Tabby McTat and Fred do together?” works well to start.
  4. Activity (6 minutes). Do Busker’s song. Make up a short song together, like Fred and Tabby, and perform it with pots, pans or a toy instrument. Children who finish early can try Missing you box.
  5. Wrap up (2 minutes). Ask each child for one thing they will remember from the story, and why.

Want to go further? The Tabby McTat activity sheet has these questions with space to answer, a drawing and writing page, and notes for the adult.

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By the Growing Wise team · Last reviewed: 29 October 2026

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