Being different

Stellaluna: questions to ask and activities to try

A baby fruit bat lands in a bird's nest and tries her best to live like a bird. A gentle book about being different and friendship across differences.

What age is Stellaluna for?

Stellaluna is best for ages 4–8.

Cover of Stellaluna by Janell Cannon

Stellaluna (Janell Cannon)

Age
4-8
Best for
Being different, fitting in, and friendship across differences
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How to use it

Talk about the things Stellaluna had to change to fit in, and how it felt. At the end, ask how the bat and the birds can still be friends.

Is this book right for your child?

Age
4–8 (Reception to Year 3)
What they'll enjoy
A baby fruit bat lands in a bird's nest and tries her best to live like a bird. A gentle book about being different and friendship across differences.
Helps with
Being different, fitting in, and friendship across differences
Buy or borrow?
Borrow it from the library first if you can. If your child asks for it again and again, it’s one worth owning, and the questions and activities on this page work best with the book open next to you.

What it helps with

Comprehension and discussion questions for Stellaluna

Pick two or three, not all of them. “I don’t know” is a fine answer, and you can always come back to it another day.

  1. “How did Stellaluna end up with the birds?”
  2. “What did she have to do to fit in?”
  3. “How did she feel trying to be a bird?”
  4. “What happened when she found her mother?”
  5. “How were the bats and birds alike and different?”
  6. “Can friends be different from each other?”

For the full list of questions and more, download the PDF below.

5-minute activities to try together

Alike and different

Draw a bat and a bird. List how they’re the same and how they’re different.

Upside-down world

Lie on the sofa with your head hanging down. What does the room look like to a bat?

Use it as a lesson plan

Learning goal

Children can listen to Stellaluna, answer questions about it and give a reason for their ideas, and talk about being different.

A 20-minute session for ages 4–8 (Reception to Year 3), for a class, a small group or one child at home.

  1. Warm up (2 minutes). Show the cover and read the title. Ask: “What do you think this story will be about?”
  2. Read aloud (6 minutes). Read it all the way through. Tip: Talk about the things Stellaluna had to change to fit in, and how it felt. At the end, ask how the bat and the birds can still be friends.
  3. Talk about it (4 minutes). Pick two or three of the comprehension and discussion questions above. “How did Stellaluna end up with the birds?” works well to start.
  4. Activity (6 minutes). Do Alike and different. Draw a bat and a bird. List how they’re the same and how they’re different. Children who finish early can try Upside-down world.
  5. Wrap up (2 minutes). Ask each child for one thing they will remember from the story, and why.

Want to go further? The Stellaluna activity sheet has these questions with space to answer, a drawing and writing page, and notes for the adult.

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By the Growing Wise team · Last reviewed: 25 October 2026

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