Friendship & jealousy

On Sudden Hill: questions to ask and activities to try

Birt and Etho are best friends, until Shu wants to join in. On Sudden Hill is a moving story about jealousy, friendship, and making room for someone new.

What age is it for? On Sudden Hill is best for ages 3–7. Good for: Jealousy, and letting someone new join in.

Cover of On Sudden Hill by Linda Sarah and Benji Davies

On Sudden Hill (Linda Sarah and Benji Davies)

Age
3-7
Best for
Jealousy, and letting someone new join in

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How to use it

Read it slowly and look at Birt's face when Shu arrives. Ask how Birt feels, and why. It's a great book for a child struggling with a friendship that's changing.

What it helps with

Comprehension and discussion questions

Pick two or three, not all of them. “I don’t know” is a fine answer, and you can always come back to it another day.

  1. “What did Birt and Etho love to do?”
  2. “Who wanted to join in?”
  3. “How did Birt feel?”
  4. “What did Birt do?”
  5. “How did his friends help him?”
  6. “Have you ever felt left out of a game?”

5-minute activities to try together

Box building

Build something amazing from cardboard boxes together, and invite someone else to add to it.

Three's fun

Think of games that are better with three people than two, and play one.

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Best for
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Age
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Pumpkin Soup (Helen Cooper)

Best for
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Age
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Croc and Bird (Alexis Deacon)

Best for
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Age
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By the Growing Wise team · Last reviewed: 10 October 2026

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