Getting along

Harmony House: questions to ask and activities to try

The neighbours at Harmony House can't agree whose music is best, so they all play louder! Harmony House is a lively story about listening and getting along.

What age is it for? Harmony House is best for ages 4–8. Good for: Disagreeing, listening and making music together.

Cover of Harmony House by Monika Singh Gangotra and Nicci Martin

Harmony House (Monika Singh Gangotra and Nicci Martin)

Age
4-8
Best for
Disagreeing, listening and making music together

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How to use it

Read it with lots of noise, then quiet. Talk about what happens when everyone talks at once, and how listening helps.

What it helps with

Comprehension and discussion questions

Pick two or three, not all of them. “I don’t know” is a fine answer, and you can always come back to it another day.

  1. “What did the neighbours disagree about?”
  2. “What did they do instead of talking?”
  3. “How did passers-by feel?”
  4. “What changed?”
  5. “How did their music sound together?”
  6. “What do you do when you disagree?”

5-minute activities to try together

Family band

Each person plays a different instrument (pots, spoons) then try to play together.

Taking turns

Take turns choosing a song and really listening to each other's.

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By the Growing Wise team · Last reviewed: 10 October 2026

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