Kindness and regret

Each Kindness: questions to ask and activities to try

When new girl Maya tries to make friends, Chloe turns her away, and then it's too late. A quiet, honest book about kindness, leaving people out and missed chances.

What age is Each Kindness for?

Each Kindness is best for ages 5–9.

Cover of Each Kindness by Jacqueline Woodson and E. B. Lewis

Each Kindness (Jacqueline Woodson and E. B. Lewis)

Age
5-9
Best for
Leaving someone out, and the chance to be kind
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How to use it

Read it slowly. Don’t rush to a happy ending; talk about how Chloe feels at the end and what she might do next time.

Is this book right for your child?

Age
5–9 (Year 1 to Year 4)
What they'll enjoy
When new girl Maya tries to make friends, Chloe turns her away, and then it's too late. A quiet, honest book about kindness, leaving people out and missed chances.
Helps with
Leaving someone out, and the chance to be kind
Buy or borrow?
Borrow it from the library first if you can. If your child asks for it again and again, it’s one worth owning, and the questions and activities on this page work best with the book open next to you.

What it helps with

Comprehension and discussion questions for Each Kindness

Pick two or three, not all of them. “I don’t know” is a fine answer, and you can always come back to it another day.

  1. “How did Maya try to make friends?”
  2. “Why do you think Chloe didn’t play with her?”
  3. “What did the teacher show with the stone and the water?”
  4. “How did Chloe feel when Maya had gone?”
  5. “What could Chloe do differently next time?”
  6. “What small kindness could you do tomorrow?”

For the full list of questions and more, download the PDF below.

5-minute activities to try together

Kindness ripples

Drop a pebble into a bowl of water and watch the ripples. Each say one kind thing you did or could do.

Welcome card

Make a card you could give to someone new at school, nursery or in your street.

Use it as a lesson plan

Learning goal

Children can listen to Each Kindness, answer questions about it and give a reason for their ideas, and talk about leaving people out.

A 20-minute session for ages 5–9 (Year 1 to Year 4), for a class, a small group or one child at home.

  1. Warm up (2 minutes). Show the cover and read the title. Ask: “What do you think this story will be about?”
  2. Read aloud (6 minutes). Read it all the way through. Tip: Read it slowly. Don’t rush to a happy ending; talk about how Chloe feels at the end and what she might do next time.
  3. Talk about it (4 minutes). Pick two or three of the comprehension and discussion questions above. “How did Maya try to make friends?” works well to start.
  4. Activity (6 minutes). Do Kindness ripples. Drop a pebble into a bowl of water and watch the ripples. Each say one kind thing you did or could do. Children who finish early can try Welcome card.
  5. Wrap up (2 minutes). Ask each child for one thing they will remember from the story, and why.

Want to go further? The Each Kindness activity sheet has these questions with space to answer, a drawing and writing page, and notes for the adult.

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By the Growing Wise team · Last reviewed: 25 October 2026

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